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hey there people delightful back to our Route what was that? two weeks in the past we created a video where by Joss was speaking about the difficulties that include dating a German with dating him, exclusively properly.. well these days we’re about to… have you been fine? I have allergy symptoms guy! today we’re about to turn it close to and I’m about to tell you all of the problems which come with dating a Mexican more specifically, this kind of one particular in this article I’m so scared of this video clip! I’m going to get offended big time but I know you love me and I know you privately love those reasons for me you believe so? I’m pretty sure not every one of them… how dare you dude due to the fact like I mentioned last time: I have a lot to say… before we start I want to mention one important thing I love you guys. I adore Mexicans. I love this particular one specifically Mexico is definitely a diversified region and are therefore the individuals.. sure that’s extremely true we come in every single shape, personality, form and color therefore we don’t wish to generalize anything.. we’re not proclaiming that every Mexican does those activities! These things are not bad we mean that it was problematic for me as a foreigner because it was something new and I had to get used to it and not because I’m a weirdo just like in the last video I’m gonna start with the most obvious problem you have to learn English and even if your partner knows English, like she does the parents probably don’t. that’s true there’s a lot of people in Mexico that speak English or at least they know the basics but they’re so scared of speaking because of their accent or something this problem gets even bigger when you think about how big families are in Mexico and that’s the next problem you’re gonna meet a lot of people whenever you meet your boyfriend or girlfriend in Mexico and it’s Christmas, New Year, Independence Day, a wedding a wedding… there bbw single women are like weddings every month yes thats’ true, when we say “problems”! be ready to meet up with about 100 or 200 people in some day that happen to be section of the loved ones that are only area of the loved ones! not even friends I don’t know if it’s the same for you guys but in my family, my grandparents from my mom’s side had 11 children the first time that I went to Mexico it was for Christmas I had to meet literally everybody from her family I probably know four names of her entire family don’t get overwhelmed guys… just say hi and act like you know everybody with the next point we’re gonna arrive at a very important part of Mexico: the food you will gain bodyweight which is caused by a couple of things: first, of all Mexican mums love to make you eat and they give you a lot of food and even when you’re done they ask you are you still hungry? have this! as well as additionally it’s tough to refuse due to the fact Mexican foods are awesome tasty Oh my god I skip it a great deal… please send me Enchiladas Potosinas you should! to me too remember to one other reason why you’re gonna get excess fat due to food is since it’s very cheap in comparison to Germany correct! lets go to the next point now, in the last video just mentioned that Germans are usually on time and that was a problem for her because she wasn’t used to that. yeah for me it’s the other way around because she tends to be late all the time… but you too sometimes.. I’m really also later I’m like Mexican.. you’re half Mexican that’s really a stereotype that I detest I loathe when people tell me: you’re gonna be later simply because you’re Mexican but I’m past due constantly! regardless if I consider my finest… that’s something I’ve battled with permanently the following level that I was required to get accustomed to a lot: you can receive afraid whilst driving a car I don’t wish to generate in Mexico and in many cases whenever your partner, in this case she, is driving a vehicle Mexico you, feel like: where are definitely the rules? exactly where are definitely the collections on a lawn that tell you by which lane you have to go along with the openings dude oh yeah my god there exists one neighborhood I must take each time I check out my home it provides numerous slots.. I discovered them my center I’m like… when investing in with an intersection there is not really a principle which says that can go very first Sure! – there are no indicators you generally tell me, the main one in the greatest neighborhood could go very first but for reasons unknown all of the Mexicans know where you should generate it’s sound judgment bro! it was the most detrimental in Mexico Town there is one super occupied streets therefore we were coming from a tiny road and all individuals from the modest neighborhood were actually just going like this close to the rest of the automobiles in Mexico Town I noticed my entire life move through my mind for true like seven occasions and the individuals from the ubers have been like: yeah wassup bro! how’s the elements today? speaking with us eventually is actually quite amazing since Mexicans really understand how to generate in ridiculous conditions! fine the next level is actually a hilarious one particular but in addition a sad 1.. occasionally for squares of lavatory pieces of paper will be all that you’ll get where did you experience that? very seriously! we had been inside a market place in Mexico Town and that i wished for to visit the toilet and that person in the front practically gave me a number of squares of lavatory pieces of paper here, do your personal style! and that i was like: I don’t know if that’s enough you knew it wasn’t enough! – No and so i informed him: can one have a different one? I didn’t know it was a difficulty to suit your needs I am talking about in Germany you will discover toilet paper correct near the lavatory.. yeah in Mexico also! yeah alright that doesn’t take place usually.. I have got to state this happened like two times if you ask me… haha he’s overreacting! When I was in primary school there was a woman giving the paper oh yeah you told me that before – in the toilet she would ask you: # 1 or # 2? If you say two she would give you two or three great on the other side that’s a good thing because it’s environment-friendly you’re not using more than you need so good for you guys now we get into the real stuff oh no on to the real st- ., and if you say one she gives you one square and. I don’t want real stuff this problem comes up even before you start dating Mexicans are very touchy for us foreigners that might be a problem because we might think “oh my god she is flirting with me or he is flirting with me”, but no! this is just the direction they are they’re this way… so don’t get the expectations up… They’re obviously girls that are not jealous at all what I’ve experienced with her in the beginning and with your friends when they talk about stuff they can get furious OMG my friends are gonna hate you next time we go to Mexico they are very like “this guy is mine, -OMG it’s crazy I’m so unaware of my body when I’m talking to someone when I first moved to Germany I met a girl at university and we were friends but we were just starting to be friends and one time we were waiting for a bus and I was like “I’m so tired” and I did this to lay on her shoulder and she moved her shoulder very very slowly and my head fell of course guys I’m not saying that every Mexican is touchy let us know in the comments what do you think the next problem is one that mostly foreigner guys might experience because Mexican girls can be very competitive or in other words kind of jealous I’m not saying that every Mexican girl is jealous! and I’m not making him venture out! ” that is a little bit too much guys but… should I point out to you of yesterday? when we were walking on the street in Germany a guy stared at you and me literally stared back at him like this for five minutes until he stopped staring at me but you’re totally right in that regard when I started dating you I noticed that my perception of love was completely twisted because of what I was surrounded by but now she changed completely she’s super not jealous anymore, which is a little bit sad because it was fun to watch dude character development I’m totally like… -alright you happen to be like.. and once I started dating you I was like “wow a new w0rld! ” I have a theory though and i also know this really is gonna cause me to seem crazy but hear me out I feel as if a lot of this thinking is molded by telenovelas. Don’t can come for me! perhaps you have observed a Mexican telenovela? -no -the women are extremely extraordinary and they’re so envious and they’re so like “he’s mine she’s never ever gonna take him from me! ” the reason why this woman looking at you? this stupid $·%·” footnote: It has a good side and a bad side Mexicans really show you how much they love you, they’re very affectionate she tells me she loves me like 20 times a day -and Janik it’s like “same” when you’re fighting the emotions come out without a filter and the these emotions are not pretty okay in my defense.., guys can also be very jealous so it’s not only girls just saying don’t come for us the next point is something that I had to get used to and I still have to get used to because it’s still the same it will never change Mexicans show their emotions very very strongly. If you date a Mexican I feel like there’s a very high chance you have never experienced anything like that before, this amount of love so it really changes your perspective also about love I think your perspective completely changed yeah the loving side it’s bigger than anything else -yes, yes baby yes, i have nothing to defend but I have to say I love this about Mexicans as a foreigner! see that’s what I mean.. now we get to a very interesting point and I call it “the gentleman dilemma” the thing is that in Mexico a lot of guys do very “gentlemany” things for example they buy flowers, they pick them up at their house, they open the doors and all that stuff so when a Mexican girl is dating a German she’s kind of expecting the same because she doesn’t know that he’s different so then German guys have to step up their game times a thousand ha ha ha ha to make her feel loved, because in her mind this is how love looks like and then I come along, the total opposite it’s basically just a cultural difference and you just have to meet in the middle I would say yes, now if you’re a girl from another country and you’re dating a Mexican guy then it might be super cool for you because he is just picking you up, he brings you roses and you’re like “what is this? I lowered my expectations with you no, big time though.. expectations are the mother of disappointment and resentment now we get to the last point of this video and that’s a very difficult one it has roots in the old traditions of Mexicans or Europeans or religion even as a foreigner you cannot expect that’s and sleepovers a thing that I had to deal with a lot in the beginning like it was super difficult for me to understand why am I not able to stay in the same room as my girlfriend, ” in the end of the day it helped both of us because now I’m more romantic and I’m more cold-hearted ha ha ha ha that is also a plus -no? in Germany people can stay on the girlfriend’s property or young girls can say the boyfriend’s house even though they’re under 18, most likely 16 they could stay at the friends of boyfriend’s property sinners! and also in Mexico believe that the worst of folks, they are doing a bit of really poor items that they could not do elsewhere one of the most persistent information I become from married couples is ladies which are desperately requesting me how have you make Janik know that he could not continue to be? or how could i make my parents recognize? it’s so difficult. -it’s hard for us too -sure either side because at the start you couldn’t comprehend it that you were like “I don’t get it” I had been 22 or 23 years when we started out dating and I was like “I’m so old and that i are unable to continue in a similar place as her” and my sibling is even old and her man couldn’t stay there I’m a mature. If you have a girlfriend from Mexico and you’re having these issues just believe her when she says “this is how it works” -you might not be able to understand why but you just have to accept it I accept it, I respect it whenever I’m in Mexico -or if you like it then you should put a ring on it everything changes it is crazy, -I don’t get it either but it’s just how life works in Mexico.. we don’t want to get deep into it but! once once a ring is on that finger you’re free to go And also this might be more a problem of smaller cities like SLP where everything is like a double moral SLP is not that small.. – But compared to Mexico City I don’t know if it works differently there let us know in the comments -yeah guys we’re super curious to see what you have to say about this and how does it work wherever you’re from these were the things that I had to get used to in the beginning of us dating obviously love is stronger than all of these problems together and there are so many more good things that come when you date a Mexican or a German oh yeah and that list is way longer so if you want to see a video about that please let us know in the comments down if and below you’re just starting a relationship with a Mexican or with a German hang in there talk about things, communicate, meet in the middle so we hope you liked this video if you liked it give us a thumbs up, subscribe to our channel if you’re not already and we’ll see you next week Adios muchachos Tschuss!

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